For Lovers
For Lovers
Have more open-hearted conversations that deepen love.
99 prompts across 3 levels, carefully chosen to help you really see each other.
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Product Description
Product Description
When you've been together for so long, you start assuming things. You have fewer loving, emotional conversations. You run out of things to say.
We added all the right questions to help you talk in ways that make love last.
Then we added challenges to bring fun activities to create a new spark.
Across 3 deepening levels, unspoken thoughts become moments where you really see each other, even after years together.
Couples who play say they feel closer and more connected than they ever have.
While other couples drift apart, you'll be growing closer.
What's Inside?
What's Inside?
- 90 questions across 3 levels that make you rediscover each other — so your long-term relationship feels brand new (even after years of "how was your day?")
- 9 secret challenge cards that create intimacy through actions, not words — they bond you in ways conversation can't reach (people call them wholesome and powerful)
- From everyday moments to "I've never told you this before" — the 3 levels that remind you why you fell in love
- Just 2 rules, playing in 60 seconds — the easiest date night you'll ever plan (and the most memorable one you'll ever have)
Helps long-term couples grow closer
(From a few months to years)
"brought us back to the honeymoon phase"
"7,000 miles apart, more connected than ever"
"Squashing arguments"
How it works
"It allows vulnerability, honesty and growth with your partner."
- Jesus ★★★★★
Ice Breakers
Sparks new conversations and remembering early memories together.
Confessions
The safe space to ask questions you never knew how but always wanted to
Getting Deep
You think you know your love until you play this level
Spark-enancing wildcards
The feeling of love through challenges. We keep these secret until the game is yours.
How to play (simplest date idea ever)
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1: Follow the 2 rules
Dig deep, share love. It's just you two and the world.
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2: Start with level 1
Choose a random icebreaker question to ask your partner to answer, then you answer.
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3: Keep going
Continue choosing a question from each level in order. Play until you feel deeply connected.
You'll know it's working when..
- You both put your phones down without being asked
- One of you says, "I didn't know you felt that way."
- You remember what made you fall in love
- The comfortable silence feels deeper and warmer
- You realize you're having a conversation you should have had months ago
- You don't want the conversation to end
Couples' Reviews:
FAQs (healthy communication)
How do I get in contact with support?
If you want to get in touch, email team@howdeepwillyougo.com.
When will my order be shipped?
Domestic Orders (US)
Orders will be fulfilled within 1-3 business days and will ship depending on what service you select.
International Orders
For international orders, there may be import costs to the shipping carrier, such as duties, import taxes, or brokerage/disbursement fees upon delivery which the customer is responsible for paying. Shipping times may also be longer than expected.
Do you have a return/exchange policy?
All sales are final, but of course we will exchange your order if it comes in damaged. Just send us an email at team@howdeepwillyougo.com so we can help you out.We will not accept exchanges after 30 days of your delivery date.
How is this different from other card games?
What other game do you see testing their game in real time with strangers without paying them? We'll wait.
How deep does this really go?
Most reviews say it goes deeper than they could have imagined. Some even call it life changing. We might need to come out with a box of tissues.