For those closest to you As someone who not just enjoys depth of conversation but craves it, this is a great way to start with someone close to you.
"We got to know the little things and the big things about each other in such a fun and connecting way."
2nd Edition
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BESTSELLER
Sold out 3x since release
The sequel to our best-selling game with all-new questions. For anyone you want to know better, even someone you've known for years. We turned really good questions that don't come up in normal conversations into a game of answering them together. You'll go deeper than you ever have, and finish with a closer connection.
- 99 new cards built from what our players asked for
- 3 levels that open anyone up, even strangers
- Play it after the original or start fresh with anyone
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Connection lies in the details.
Slate grey 2nd Edition
Why slate grey?
It's meant to be understated, and underestimated. Just like the Original.
the rules
dig deep.
seek discomfort.
Why the rules?
Rules change the psychology of the moment. Agreeing on 2 rules turns vulnerability into a shared norm.
Ice Breakers Level 1
Confessions Level 2
Getting Deep Level 3
Why levels?
Each deeper answer feels like the natural next move, not a scary leap. And the progression creates a real sense of achievement.
Questions?
All new questions, written the way people think, not the way AI thinks. You'll find that people are so interesting with the right questions.
3 levels. One really good moment.
Each level unlocks the version of people around you that almost nobody gets to see.
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Ice Breakers
Light enough that nobody feels on the spot, but better than small talk.
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Confessions
Vulnerability starts to show. And it shifts something.
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Getting Deep
Where you really feel seen. The kind of conversation you'll remember for years.
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Challenge
Challenge cards that bond you through action, not words.
★★★★★Rated 4.8/5
20,000+ people play 2nd Edition & love it.
★★★★★
Verified buyer
"It feels like a stepping-stone in a relationship."
This game captures the feeling of postprofundus. I have fallen in love with HDWYG and play it with each new close friend I make. Getting on a mutually vulnerable level with each other is something that needs to be more normalized, and this game accomplishes exactly that. Thank you HDWYG.
★★★★★
Verified buyer
"Every question so far has really made me stop and think."
Asking EXCELLENT questions is something I have adopted for all my relationships. Getting this deck was just a pleasure. Keep making these kinds of cards. They foster deeper and richer conversations. Well done.
★★★★★
Verified buyer
"The second edition is just as good!!"
My boyfriend and I played the first game when we first started dating and it was such a lovely experience. We got to know the little things and the big things about each other in such a fun and connecting way. I've passed the game onto my sister and her husband.
We didn't set out to make a game. We were just asking questions.
Here's the story of our 2nd Edition.
It started with a challenge.
We went viral on college campuses asking students deep questions. Millions watched.
It became a movement.
The DMs flooded in asking for the list. So we went back through hundreds of questions we'd tested on real people and kept only the ones that actually created a moment.
100,000 people loved the Original.
People kept begging us for an updated version because they wanted more.
Now, 2nd Edition.
The same framework millions of people have seen online, updated with 99 new questions to connect on a deeper level with anyone.
You could just ask. But you probably won't.
Here's what the game does that a list of questions can't.
Free question listsFree lists
Google, TikTok, AI
Just talkingJust talking
Hoping it goes deep
Everyone agrees to go deep first
Nobody has to be the one who asks
Everyone answers, not just one person
Starts easy, gets deeper on its own
Sometimes
Every question tested on real people
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Keeps you off your phones
Sometimes
A few things people wonder.
Who do I play this with?
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Play with anyone. Our reviews show people playing with friends, strangers, lovers, family, siblings, you name it. The game works because the questions work, regardless of how well you know the other person.
How deep does this go?
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Most reviewers say it goes deeper than they could have imagined. Some call it life-changing. You can stay light or go all the way in. Either way, something real happens.
How many people can play?
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Works best with 2–8 people, but there's no strict limit. One-on-one is incredible. So is a table of ten. The questions scale to the room.
What if I don't love it?
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Try it with a few people. If it doesn't spark your favorite conversations, request a full refund. We stand behind it completely. 30-day, no-hassle guarantee.
What payment methods do you accept?
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We accept major credit cards, PayPal, Shop Pay, and Apple Pay for your convenience and security.
How deep does this go?
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Most reviewers say it goes deeper than they could have imagined. Some call it life-changing. You can stay light or go all the way in. Either way, something real happens.
What if I don't love it?
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Try it with a few people. If it doesn't spark your favorite conversations, request a full refund. We stand behind it completely. 30-day, no-hassle guarantee.
Our Promise
If you don’t love playing 2nd Edition more than normal conversations, just let us know and we’ll give you a full refund.
Experiences shared by our community.
Customer Reviews
Overall rating: 4.8 / 5 from 71 reviews.
I’ve used this with my partner but also my friends. It really sparked conversation and brought us closer together.
I love this box set! I have never had any of these sets before and I was apprehensive because of the cost but after getting it, I think it is well worth it. The cards are made well and the questions are very creative and thought provoking. We played it this past weekend and it helped me get to know my partner and his son even better!
I’ve reached out several times to get information on the refund, since you guys only give 30 days and it seems you have ZERO customer service, not even a phone number. Can you at least write back to my EMAILS? Been trying for over a week.
This is a game that I hope to carry with me my whole life. I’ve always loved making deeper connections but I was never sure how to start those kinds of conversations. This game has and will helped me do exactly that. Thank you
A wonderful game that allows for great conversations and understanding. Great questions to start true conversation.
Fun
Amazing and fun game to play. I've stayed up many nights already playing with friends and strangers alike. 2nd edition is the best addition you can add to the game. I've learned so much about others and myself.
Loved it
Great
HDWYG = Postprofundus This game captures the feeling of postprofundus. I have fallen in love with HDWYG and play it with each new close friend I make, it feels like a "stepping-stone" in a relationship, to get on a mutually vulnerable level with each other is something that needs to be more normalized throughout society today and this game accomplishes exactly that. Thank you HDWYG
The Re-Meet! No matter how long you’ve known someone, there’s always more to them than you think. HDWYG has a way of reintroducing you to people you thought you already knew. So relevant!
Haven’t played yet, but it looks great. On the dining room table. 🎉
Love the cards. We... Love the cards. We each pull a card every meal
Communication opportunity It really helped my wife and I open up and have deeper conversations and talk about some things we realized we never have before.
Continued excellence from level 1! More questions to go even deeper! Loved to see refreshing questions and icebreakers!
Wonderful for student athletes I've started using this with my high school athletes. They initially nervous-laughed at every question, but after just a few days they started to ask me if they could have a couple of questions and are giving each other honest, vulnerable responses. We'll be working through these pretty quickly!
Deep connections and love for one another This game is so enjoyable and fun! It made friendships even deeper and how we appreciate them on a deeper lever.
Wonderful questions for having meaningful and love-enhancing conversations, exploring the shadow, and making a night together worthwhile. I plan to be gifting this frequently!
Connection, empathy, understanding… It is nice to have thoughtful prompts to encourage connection, empathy, and understanding. Thank you. XO
Quick shipping & nice packaging. Super excited to play this game w my family & friends
Excellent deck to add richness to relationships Asking EXCELLENT questions is something I have adopted for all my relationships. To get this deck was just a pleasure. Every question so far has really made me stop and think about my answer, same with my Bestie. Keep making these kinds of cards. They foster deeper and richer conversations. Well done.
Love the game
Excellent mix of conversation starters and progressively deeper questions
Must have for out of the box convo I used this with family and friends. Only one person didn’t want to answer one question. Otherwise, there was so much productive and deep conversation.
One Game Night Was All It Took. Instant Buy! My best friend bought the game and we tried it out together for the first time. We had such a great time that I immediately bought my own copy so I could play it with family and friends!
Party of 5 new game My family of 5 loves to play this after dinner. we go around the table and share.
Great variety and Quality I love the variety and quality of questions! Really help open up the conversation
Hope is Restored in Me A great product, especially in the modern age of technology. It has reminded me to slow down and let real connections happen. I can’t wait to use it soon. However, it’s very powerful for self-reflection too! Enjoy!
Store owner replied: Such a spot-on review. Sometimes people ask us why we don't have an app, and its because we want to let people be truly 1 on 1 with each other. Thanks Manuel :)
Can't review yet It would be awesome to review after I receive it and check it out. The tracking is not accurate and I've been waiting almost a week.
Not that deep to me Not really feeling most of these questions. Phase 3 was a better Phase 1
Store owner replied: Thanks for the review Marc! I appreciate the honesty, but do you mind if I offer some perspective on those questions you found basic or uncomfortable? I've actually found those to be some of our best moments. Take "what's something normal to you that other people find weird?" - it might seem like an odd question, but one of our videos that went viral was when my brother talked about going on dates by himself. The top comments were all about how refreshing and great that perspective was. So I guess what I'm saying is I totally agree with you that level 3 is the sweet spot, but all those questions - even the seemingly simple ones - are pretty intentional. Sometimes the "basic" questions unlock the good stuff.
This is a game changer to deepen relationships. Its been eye opening
While I haven't played... While I haven't played a game, I've enjoyed reading thru the cards. They are thought provoking and I'm excited to play.
I just got it… I just got it and haven’t really been able to use it with others - I’ve looked at the cards but it’s only been a couple of weeks and I just moved to Washington and I think it may take a bit longer to develop a group of people willing to play.
A Deep Game for Deeper Relationships I played with a friend and all the questions/prompts were very unique. It got us talking quite a bit. Of course, as the title of the game implies, the deeper one goes and leans into the game... the more you can get out of it. I shared deep insights and perspectives that I have never shared with anyone else, and my friend shared with me something very deep and traumatic, which honestly moved me. I'm glad I got the game (had seen it constantly on socials) and will keep it around as a way to help form deeper relationships. Excellent job!
Store owner replied: Beautiful :)
Connection I love the deep connection with others that comes from this game!
First and second! My boyfriend and I played the first game when we first started dating and it was such a lovely experience to do together. We got to know the little things and the big things about each other in such a fun and connecting way. I've passed the game onto my sister and her husband, and now from what my boyfriend and I have played, the second edition is just as good!!
Great game to get to know people you care about Great game to get to know people if you struggle asking deeper questions
Great game
Same same but different… Worth it It is a game that has thoughtful questions and it’s different than some of the other programs out there. This question line seems more poignant for the rest.
Store owner replied: Thanks for the review, Kent. Funny you say that, because that's exactly what we felt was missing from other games out there. They tend to play it safe, but in my experience, the real breakthrough moments with people come from those deeper, more poignant questions. It's the difference between telling someone to call their mom because they should, versus because one day you'll call and no one will pick up. We wanted that sense of poignancy that brings out the inspiring thoughts.